If you're pregnant and you've noticed some odd personality changes in your dog, and maybe even some undesirable behaviors, you're not alone. Human pregnancies really seem to affect some dogs. Why does this happen, and will life ever return to normal?
Why Dogs React to Human Pregnancy
According to Jennifer Shryock, Certified Dog Behavior Consultant, dogs really recognize all the subtle, and not so subtle, changes a woman's body goes through during pregnancy.
Pregnancy triggers definite changes in a woman's hormone levels. Believe it or not, your dog can actually smell the difference in your body chemistry after you become pregnant. This scent change can affect him in different ways.
- Your dog may seem confused by the scent change and act a little reluctant to be too close to you.
- Your dog may respond to your new scent by acting more affectionate and protective toward you.
- Your dog may actually remain happily oblivious to the entire change going on and continue to behave normally.
Unless you were full-figured before the pregnancy, your body is going to increase noticeably in size. While some pets don't seem to register any notice of a growing belly, other dogs, especially smaller ones, may actually appear a little apprehensive about your new shape and changes in the way you move as the pregnancy progresses.
Your pet may also become flustered the first time he's snuggled up with you and feels the baby move. If this happens, offer calm, loving reassurance that everything is all right.
Behavior Problems That Sometimes Occur
The confusion some pets feel during the pregnancy sometimes results in undesirable behaviors.
- Some dogs chew up items intended for the new baby.
- Some pets begin urinating in inappropriate places.
- Some dogs become moody and may growl or become uncooperative.
At the other end of the spectrum, your dog may not appear to be jealous at all. In fact, many dogs take their cues from their owners, and readily welcome the baby into the home. In cases like this, the main concern may actually be protecting the baby from your dog's overly enthusiastic affections.
Helping Your Dog Adjust
There's no way to predict how your dog will react to your pregnancy. However, there are some ways you can help your pet adjust to the changes to come.
Introduce or Refresh Obedience Training
If you haven't already put your pet through obedience training, there's no time like the present. You can do this yourself if you're in the beginning stages of pregnancy, or you may want to ask your partner to attend training classes with your dog instead.
If your dog has already been trained, it's a good time to start putting him through his paces to respond to the various commands. The extra structure may help him feel more secure knowing you're still in charge.
Reinforce House Training
Inappropriate urination has to be dealt with immediately before it gets totally out of hand.
- Clean up the soiled areas using an enzymatic cleaner that is designed to remove all traces of urine.
- Reinforce training by taking your pet outside and rewarding him for urinating in an appropriate place.
- If necessary, restrict your dog's run of the house to limit the areas where he soils until he's reliable again.
Establish a Flexible Schedule
When the baby arrives, you'll all be operating around his schedule, so it's a good idea to accustom your dog to flexibility. Here are some ideas:
- Gradually vary your pet's feeding time so he's more flexible when baby's schedule takes precedence.
- Exercise your dog at odd times, in addition to his regular schedule, so changes won't upset him too much.
- Consider installing a dog door so your pet isn't completely dependent on you when he needs to go outside.
Accustom Your Dog to Baby Scents
Dogs operate more by smell than by sight. You can help your pet prepare for baby's arrival by accustoming him to the scents of baby products.
- Bathe your pet in baby shampoo so the baby smells familiar to him.
- Rub baby powder in his coat for a dry shampoo between regular baths.
- Wash your pet's bedding using the baby's laundry detergent.
Use a "Practice" Baby
One of the most important things you can do for your dog is accustom him to the presence of someone else in your lap. Try holding a baby doll in your lap during your dog's usual snuggle time with you. This will begin to move your pet into his new position with the pack, yet reassure him that he can still be close to you as long as he behaves calmly around the baby. Take this opportunity to train him to behave the way you need him to without any risk to a real child.
Life Eventually Returns to Normal
As the pregnancy progresses, the most important thing you can do for your pet is remain aware of how the changes in your life may affect him. Try to remain firm but patient and reassuring with him as you both adjust to your new life-style. Once the baby arrives and you all settle into your new routines, life will get back to normal.