Stop My Dogs from Fighting

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"Stop my dogs from fighting!" That's one visitor's plea after adopting a dog into the family.

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Visitor: Stop My Dogs from Fighting

I have an 18-month-old female German Shorthaired Pointer named Mae. I've also recently taken in another female dog named Maury that I have previously cared for about ten times when her owner was away.

My problem is that Maury has begun to attack Mae. I used to be able to walk both dogs next to each other, and now Mae walks behind Maury. Maury is obviously taking a dominant role, but I expected the tension to be at its maximum while they were figuring out who is dominant, not afterward.

Last night I had to separate the dogs and force them to lay down next to each other until they were both in a totally relaxed state. They ate and slept within three feet of each other that night. This morning Maury attacked Mae again as I set their food out.

These fights happen so quickly it's hard to catch them before they begin. Do I need to keep the dogs separated until I can get Maury under control? I suspect the fighting has something to do with me since they spend the day in the yard by themselves while I'm at work, and I've never seen signs of a fight. It only seems to happen when I'm around. I can't figure out what I could be doing wrong. Any ideas?

~~ Randy

Expert Reply

Hi Randy,

I'm sorry the adoption of Maury has hit a rough patch. I think this must be a very confusing time for her being thrust into a new home and family, although I certainly commend you for adopting her.

Maury's confusion is leading to the outbreaks of rage you're seeing, and unfortunately Maury is focusing that rage on Mae because she is subordinate to her. You have been spared because Maury views you as dominant to her, a relationship you established with her as her sitter.

Let's talk about what you're doing right, and move on to other measures that might help the situation. First, putting Maury in a time out by making her lay down until she is relaxed is very good. This takes the fury out of her and reinforces your dominant role. It is not as necessary to do this with Mae unless she is actually becoming angry and fighting back. She has already taken on the submissive role, so forcing her into further submission will not help the situation unless she is participating in the fight.

I think it would also be beneficial for you and Maury to attend a dog training class together. You should seek out a trainer who specializes in behavioral issues and is also willing to conduct some sessions with you in your home. This is where the main action is taking place, so it's good for the trainer to observe the three of you in situation. An experienced trainer will be able to pinpoint exactly what sets Maury off, whether it's you, a cue from Mae or something else.

I hope you find these suggestions helpful and you're able to work the situation out.

~~ Kelly


 


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Hi Jeremy,

It sounds as though both your puppies may be alpha males, and they are having difficulty working out which one is going to be the top dog. Neutering can lower the aggression levels, but it's not a guaranteed cure.

If you're willing to go to the expense, you could invite a canine behaviorist to come to your house to observe the dogs in action. the behaviorist would then recommend a course of action based on your dogs' exact behaviors. This would be the surest way to resolve the issue.

It may also be helpful to give your dogs more to do in order to divert their energy from each other. Indestructible Dog Toys, trips to the park and daily walks may dissipate some of their machismo.

Thanks for your question, and I do hope you're able to work things out.

-- Contributed by: Kelly

Hello, I have two coton de tulear 9 month old males. It was when they were about 6 to 7 months that they had first fought with each other. Ever since then the dogs had been fighting with each other. It's extremely odd because they fight out of no where. What happens is that they start staring at each other and putting their heads down sniffing each other. All of a sudden one of them starts growling, and the other attacks him. When I pick one of the dogs up, they try to leap out of my arms to try to attack again. I can't stand to see them like this. They don't completely "hate" each other because there are times where they run around the backyard together and have fun. Last night, they both slept next to each other next to me on the bed, with no problem. They are not neutered. I plan to do so very soon. I really want to solve this problem as fast as I can. Is there some sort of product I can buy to resolve this issue? Trainers usually charge a grip to come to houses. For the past 5 days, they have been having at least one fight a day. Something has to give. I do not want to resort to permanent separation. Please help!

-- Contributed by: Jeremy

I have 2 pitbulls... a female (spayed) almost 5 years old and a male (not nuetered) about 2 years old. Within the last month or so fights have been breaking out amongst the two. It ALWAYS starts because of a stare-down. One will look at the other and the female immeciately perks her ears up accompanied by very wide-eyes. The female will then growl and when the male growls back the female will attack. It seems the male doesn't even know what is happening as he doesn't posture up and just remains seated.

Since this reoccuring theme I have learned the art of breaking dogs up. Since being bitten on the forearm pretty bad I've learned to never come in between them and grab their back legs to pull apart.

The male dog always receives the worst of it. Last evening they fought twice. One resulting in a punctured lip and welps around his neck and shoulders.

We used to let them up on the couch but after a couple fights we decided to try making them stay on the floor as I've read letting them up on the couch can progress into dominance. This worked for about a week or so.

Then it became a fight over who gets to lay under my wife and I's feet. Last evening the female upon my request laid down under my feet with her belly up. The male then came about 4 feet from her and was simply sitting. The female then began the stare... I tried over and over to snap her out of it and I don't know if it was her reluctance to stop staring or his. After doing the Ceasar Milan "dog bite" and scolding her about 4 or 5 times she jumped up and growled. Fight commense...

This has also happened as the male would sit all the way towards the end of the couch, the female on the other. The male will peek his head around to see whats going on and the female will jump up into his face and begin growling. This escalates quickly into another fight.

Last evening I separated the dogs for 2 hours.. regardless of their incessant whines and howls.

This is becoming a problem I don't know how to handle even after reading numerous books and websites. Please help!

  • Hi Chris,

I'm sorry to hear that your dog's aren't getting along, but in this instance I'm not surprised. Pitbulls typically develop a certain level of intolerance for other dogs around eighteen months old. Even if the dogs get along for a while, the sparring is bound to begin sooner or later.

I would definitely have the male neutered to see if the lowered testosterone level mellows him out a bit. In this case, I'd also hire a canine behaviorist to come observe the dogs together in your home. This person is trained to identify the behavior cues that lead to the fighting and figure out ways to avert those cues. I do hope you'll find this helpful.

Thanks for your question, and best wishes for a harmonious home.


-- Contributed by: Chris
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